Sometimes, we get the correct sexual information which can make us really good in the bedroom, but most times, we fall for myths that are only ruining our sex life.
We all learn about sex through a bunch of different sources. Sometimes, we get the correct information which can make us really good in the bedroom, but most times, we fall for myths that are only ruining our sex life.
Here are three sex myths you might be believing that is making you terrible in bed.
Marriage/commitment ruins sex
Most people are of the belief that getting married automatically ruins your sex life. Sure, a lot of people struggle with monogamy, but giving up on married sex will only end up hurting you. In fact, studies have shown that married couples have more sex than single people do. Also, being married means you can build sexual trust with one person, which can make sex more intimate.
How it affects your sex life
If you go into marriage or a long-term committed relationship believing that sex will be bad, then it will. You will find yourself hesitating to try new things or pleasing your partner. In the long run, your partner will fell undesired and sexually frustrated, making him/her believe you are not that good in bed.
Men cannot be monogamous, but women naturally can
Traditional theory has proclaimed that men are more likely to cheat than women. Also that men have more desire to step out on their relationship; this is not true. New studies have shown that men and women have the same rate of cheating tendencies. Another study shows that infidelity is related to power as opposed to gender. This means that as women acquire more power and confidence at work, they become likely as men to cheat. Most have speculated that women remained faithful in the past because they completely depend on their men to support them.
How it affects your sex life
As a man, choosing to believe that cheating is natural and being unfaithful will ruin whatever sexual connection you have with your partner. No woman will completely give herself sexually to a man who has betrayed her. Also, if you believe that all a woman wants is commitment or marriage, you are less likely to focus on her sexual needs.
Men are visual creatures, women are not
Most people believe that men are moved by what they see while women respond to what they hear. This is not a hundred percent true. Just as men also like to hear great things about themselves, women are also attracted to what they see.
How it affects your sex life
Men who hold this belief usually assume that taking care of their body is of no importance to their partners. The truth is, taking care of yourself helps you build confidence and there is nothing more confident than a sexy, fit man in the bedroom. It increases her level of attraction to you, thus, making it more likely that she will be sexually satisfied by you.
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